How to choose a wife

Somehow, in a society believe that a man marries more often for selfish reasons and chooses to marry the woman who is able to some extent replace him housekeeper and mother. In fact, before the man is a very difficult task - to choose the woman he loved, to marry and did not regret his choice.

Unlike women, to make the final choice, the man is extremely difficult. First, because it is very difficult to understand the characteristics of female psychology and logic, and secondly, most often a man is guided by an external, visual image, which greatly complicates the choice of internal content. Most beautiful from the outside, are "empty" inside and with nothing to even talk.

Agree, it is difficult to find the ideal - a woman who has great looks and while understandable, appropriate internal state. I very much want a woman to cook delicious, maintain cleanliness and order in the house, not outraged because of the trips to football matches and did not oppose the consumption of beer with friends.

How to choose a wife, but so to live with it happily, continue their family? What criteria are important when choosing?

- Her family, her mother and her relationship with her mother. If it all got used to consult with his mother, is discussing with its every detail and every step, then after the wedding, nothing will change, my mother will remain the main character, which will consult and discuss every detail, only topic of conversation often will you .

If this alignment you can bend it better than the wedding in a hurry, and again to weigh its decision. Family model, which was deposited at the subconscious level of your chosen one, very soon in full, and change the subconscious program can only be a long course of psychotherapy, and then, if you want to make changes.

- Its relation to household operations. Knows how - do not know how to cook is not important, you learn very quickly, but if you do not want to please you with culinary masterpieces, it is already difficult. If you are not afraid of food from the semi, and you are ready rubbed a lot of time in the kitchen, then this is not a problem. The same applies to the clean, if you yourself do the bulk of domestic work, then this item can not pay much attention.

- Attitude to life. Optimists - energized around positive energy, support in difficult times, the pessimists contrary. If you like her attitude to life is good, if not, think about whether you can get along.

- Attitude to material goods. Does your darling? What is its relation to earnings, and how she prefers to spend money? If these issues do not bother you, it's good if you think she spends too much and do not earn even a portion thereof, is likely to have a marriage that begins to irritate. Practice shows that the argument on the material basis of the most frequent in families. <

- To children. One of the most important functions of the family is procreation - the appearance of children. Your chosen one should want to have children, and not afraid to lose because of pregnancy figure, break your career. Your views on the number of children in the family and their upbringing must be the same, otherwise you can not avoid controversy.

In our time, is difficult to imagine a marriage without prior cohabitation. To know a person better, to live together for more than six months, and as people say "eat a peck of salt". The most significant personality traits manifest themselves in complex, critical periods, if the difficulties and hardships you will pass along and help each other to survive, then your family will be strong and happy.

Choosing a wife, first of all, appreciate their attitude to it, if this is love, whether you need general, any options? Marry and be happy!